Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Guest Blogger: Notification: The ex has untagged you in 25 photos on Facebook


Today another hot-and-bothersome topic from Meg over at Blackberries to Apples

As I was putting the finishing touches on my blogger play recently - my very first play, so exciting - I received the following e-mail from my most recent ex.
"I'm really sorry. There's not really any good way for me to say this, but I think I need to de-tag the pictures of us on Facebook. This is not about me erasing or forgetting anything; I have all of these saved on my computer, but more importantly, in my head. I just think it's not such a great idea for me to have them on my Facebook now that we've been broken up for a while. I'm sorry."

Now, as you can imagine, this sort of came out of nowhere and it was kind of shocking to read. Of course, because I am human and I have feelings, my initial gut reaction was something along the dreadful lines of "UGHHHH he's really over me how can he do this owwww this hurts," but the more I read over his words, the more that feeling was replaced with an indignant feeling I'll call, 
Who cares?

Things worth noting: 
1. My ex and I have not been Facebook friends for four months. I unfriended him literally the day after he broke up with me, and when I did so I sent him a courtesy e-mail letting him know. Thus I have not seen his profile since we were dating, and really have no idea what's going on in his FBL (Facebook Life). 

2. He and I have not had a meaningful conversation in more than two months. 

3. The number of photos of us together on Facebook is (was) pretty limited. Maybe 25-30, tops. A small percentage, when you consider that there are nearly 1,500 photos of me currently tagged on Facebook. (Aside: WTF?!)

His e-mail struck a chord in me. It got me wondering - Carrie Bradshaw-style - about the modern break-up, and all that it entails. I imagine that only 10 years ago, the 20-something breakup was a totally different, and likely a somewhat easier, experience. You shared a last coffee or meal with your significant other, or maybe one last phone call - placed from a land line, of course - and that was that. Maybe you made a courtesy call every now and then, just to catch up and say hello, but aside from that, your contact with the person was probably limited to random run-ins - if you had the unfortunate experience of sharing a city - or group outings - if you had the even more unfortunate experience of sharing friends.

But now, it's different. It can take months to purge someone from your social life. Once the initial break-up happens, depending on how close you were with the person and how long you dated, there can be lots of steps required to completely wash him out of your life. If you have an iPhone, you have to delete the text conversation that might literally span the length of your whole relationship. You gotta delete his number from your phone, and any voicemails you might have. You have to avoid reading his blog, which you had probably made a habit of checking everyday. It's best to unfriend on Facebook, and if you can't bring yourself to do that, you have to avoid checking his profile constantly. (I actually have a 
friend who found herself obsessively checking an ex's profile, so she changed her FB password to a Hemingway quote - like, an entire two lines' worth - to discourage herself from logging in. Tellingly, it didn't keep her from logging in at all - she just quickly memorized the quote.)

And lastly, the (apparently?) epic Facebook photo de-tag. Up until this point, I've considered all the previous steps necessary to moving on with my life and really getting over a person. But I don't fully understand the urge to untag. I've actually never untagged myself from photos with any of my exes, and still don't intend to. My hunch is that someone might do this when he starts dating someone new and the new girl doesn't feel comfortable seeing pictures of him and his ex (ahem, that's me) together. And I guess I just don't really get that. The past is the past. I've never had a problem seeing photos of my boyfriends and their exes together; I acknowledge that all the people I meet in my life had lives - and significant others - before they met me. Also, I fully expect my next significant other not to 
care about Facebook photos that range anywhere from several months to more than a year old.

So the over-arching question is this, and I think my lovely host blogstress will soon write a response: Does Facebook 
really matter? Has it become such an important part of our young lives that a courtesy e-mail or phone call is expected when you are about to unfriend your ex or de-tag photos with him? Clearly, some - and likely most - think so. But I'm here to dissent, to say no, to say it doesn't matter.

I find that the older I get - Jesus fuck I'm almost 24 - the less Facebook means to me. In college, it was a big deal. I updated my status a lot, changed my profile information frequently and uploaded photos constantly. The further I move away from college, the more other/better outlets I find for expression - namely, my beloved blog and all its offshoots - and the more I see Facebook as nothing but a useful tool for self-promotion. (Though, arguably, not as useful as 
Twitter.) It's also fun to keep photo albums there and be able to have a commenting community with your friends. But aside from that, the more Facebook itself evolves, with new apps and games and quizzes, the more annoying it becomes.

I do acknowledge that it is undeniable how intertwined Facebook has become with real-life breakups. Going from "In a relationship" to "Single" can be a traumatic experience, as it can lure from the woodwork lots of people you haven't talked to in years (for a reason). It can be a big deal to unfriend someone you once dated, or to see photos of your ex with someone new, or to untag photos with your ex, or whatever. Of course anything along those lines is going to be hurtful to one or both parties - but I would argue that has more to do with the extreme availability of information - combined with the vulnerability of being recently singled - than with Facebook itself. Facebook serves to reflect the very real experiences of being alive - including (but by no means limited to) relationship status, religion, gender and favorite books - but Facebook itself is 
not real life.

I just have to cling to the belief that how we interact with each other in real life - how we actually treat our friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, colleagues and, yes, exes - is what really matters. I have to cling to the belief that how we handle Facebook in all its social intricacies does not wholly reflect how we truly feel about the relationship we once had with someone. I have to cling to the belief that I will eventually find a man who acknowledges my past and doesn't care if there are photos - and, even more revealing, blog posts - on the Internet that hearken back to the days of my ex. I have to believe that there are better things on which to focus my energy than whether there are 1,500 photos of me tagged on Facebook, or slightly fewer.

You know, like writing an entire blog post about it.

32 comments:

  1. I'm a little older than you, but my friends and I experience ex-related Facebook drama as well (well, me not as much, considering I've been with my husband for a really long time). It's super annoying and yes, makes breakups all the more difficult. It makes me pleased that my husband refuses to have Facebook in case (god forbid) we ever split up.

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  2. Does Facebook matter? Yes and no.

    Even though it's not real life, it's an account of a person's life. If a person doesn't keep pictures of his ex placed around his home then I don't understand why he would keep photos tagged on his page. Untagging photos is a way of removing it from your searchable past, but it doesn't remove the person from your history. It simply implies that the person is no longer important enough to you to garner a spot in your catalog of friends. As you stated yourself, you no longer talk to this ex, so why bother with the pictures?

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  3. i had an ex detag some pictures of himself and me about a year after we broke up. He didn't tell me he did it, I just noticed about a month after he did it b/c I was going through my own pictures purging some as well (cleaning up the profile during my job search) and happened to see that he had done it. The timing coincided with him dating a new girlfriend, so I can hypothesize that that was the reason for it. I am currently dating a new guy myself and just asked him if he cared that I was tagged in pictures with my ex, after reading this, and he says that unless they were super schmoopy, he absolutely does not care. I have to say, I feel the same way about his pictures with exes. I have to admit I felt a momentary pang of hurt that my ex was purging me from his life (we were supposedly still friends), but like the guest blogger, came to realize that in the grand scheme of things, it just doesn't matter. I'm happy in my new relationship and hope that my ex is happy in his and if his new girl wants him to detag, go for it.

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  4. So much energy is placed into wondering what a past lover, ex-friend or significant other is at any given moment, who he is she is with, and if they are happy.

    Facebook just exacerbates this; it gives solidity to suspicions.

    I'm going to have to root for the unfriend, in most cases.

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  5. I have talked about the significance of Facebook in relationships and in breakups quite a few times with friends. Detagging pictures of an ex has just as much significance as posting that you are "In a relationship with so-and-so" on Facebook...in real life it means absolutely nothing. Yes, Facebook is a great social-networking site (I have been known to stalk facebook myself), but people put too much weight on what they see on it sometimes.

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  6. I wanted to write about my situation but I figured I "google" this topic and low and behold, it does happen to others.

    This happened to me as well. My ex had untagged a picture of himself with him and I in it. He had also blocked his wall from view (Ok, consider me guilty for having a unhealthy urge of visiting his profile.). We were able to remain "friends" after the breakup but he has a new gf now which like the other comment noted, probably explains the reason for all this happening. After being apart for some time, I still felt heartbroken that he untagged his photos. I can understand where he is coming from and I try not to take it personally. What I don't get is that he blocked me from viewing his wall, but I can see his album and info. Why did he not chose to delete me as a friend instead? We had dated for over 10 years, I'm nearing 30 and honestly thought we would of married someday. I wouldn't be surprised (Due to our long history), if he kept me as a friend to check up on me from time to time. But after sharing these thoughts, I am considering deleting him as my facebook friend because I agree, What's the point? That's why they're called the Ex-. He is trying to move on..so should I and we should be happy for each other (eventually...lol) I have to say that facebook is a great way to determine whether you may be holding on to something that is no longer there. Consider yourself healed when that ex is out-of-sight and out-of-mind :)

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  7. If photos mean anything when they are posted, then they still mean the same when they are a year old and a photo of an ex. Its all very well keeping then on your hard drive, but theyre still out there for the new partner and everyone to see, that why Im de tagging my photos so my new gf doesnt see them publicly on my profile

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  8. So I read this and it honestly helped me to just delete all the mushy photos I still had of my ex and me. I know he's with someone else now and he untagged himself, but I couldn't let myself delete them, ya know? All I can say is thanks, because while pictures don't matter to me (especially if I still look hot in them), the lovey dovey ones had to go!

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  9. Thanks a lot for your advice guys, it helped me a lot, I went to www.saveabreakup.com and followed their step by step instructions and it worked perfectly, now me and my girlfriend are back together.

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  10. What everyone has said is true. But...what if you're still dating the person? In my case we dated for about 2 months. But then he broke up with me because he "wasn't ready for a relationship". About 3 weeks later we're now dating again, but yesterday he untagged pictures of us together. Now THAT is a mystery. I have no idea why. Today he asked me to go on a date with him Friday. I guess I'll ask him about it, but at the same time I don't want to seem insecure or whatever. So I guess my question is why. Why did he untag those pictures? Silly Facebook.

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  17. i will love to share my testimony to you all the people in world i got married to my husband about 2 year ago we start having problems at home like we stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he always comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with other women out side i have never love any man in my life except him. he is the father of my child and i don't want to loose him because we have worked so hard together to become what we are and have today .few month ago he now decided to live me and the kid,being a single mother can be hard sometimes and so i have nobody to turn to and i was heart broken.i called my mom and explain every thing to her,my mother told me about DR.okoro how he helped her solve the problem between her and my dad i was surprise about it because they have been without each other for three and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each other. i was directed to DR. okoro on his email:okorospell@gmail.com and explain everything to him,so he promise me not to worry that he will cast a spell and make things come back to how we where so much in love again and that it was another female spirit that was controlling my husband he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back asking me to forgive him i Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact Dr okoro the great spell caster on his email addresses okorospell@gmail.com

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  21. Am jessica from California.I want to use this medium to tell you
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    with my husband and he left me for another lady.I did everything I could
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    of mine introduced me to(hinduspiritualtemple@gmail.com )were I met a
    great spell caster who gave me a spell with instructions on how to use
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    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after you.

    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) You want to be rich.
    (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) Herbal care
    (10) If you can be able to satisfy your wife sex desire due to low erraction.

    (11) if your menstruation refuse to come out the day it suppose or over flows.
    (12) if your work refuse to pay your, people owing you?.
    (13) solve a land issue and get it back.
    (14) Did your family Denny you of your right?

    (15) Let people obey my words and do my which.
    (16) Do you have a low sperm count?
    (17) Case solve E.T.C
    free to contact him at hinduspiritualtemple@gmail.com, and tell him what you need to be salve

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  22. what a wonderful world we are living, i still doubt this spell caster how he did it!!! i am Jacqueline am from California I am so happy to let the whole word know how this powerful spell caster saved my marriage.Everything was going down the drain as my husband can not stop cheating on me with other women. It became used to always heating on me. I tried to make him stop, but I couldn't help the situation, the more I tried, the harder it becomes. At times we will fight and go apart for some months and we will come back again just because of our kids. One day a friend told me about this spell caster who helped her too, his name is Dr.oku, she said he uses white magic spells to solve spiritual problems. I decided to give it a try, I contacted him and he told me it will take just 2 to 3 days and I will see great changes in my husband. He actually cast a spell, believe me after 2 to 3 days of the spell, my husband was confessing different names of woman he has slept with. He begged for forgiveness and never to try it again. From that day till now, my mind is at rest. My husband dislike every other women on earth except me. And am so happy to have him for myself alone.The spell caster’s contact is okutemple@gmail.com

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  25. My name is Mary and I base in USA...“My life is back!!! After 1 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called High Priest Dr BRIGHT which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Sonia,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 7 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped High Priest Dr BRIGHT 's e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. High Priest Dr BRIGHT is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try High Priest Dr BRIGHT anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his contact:drbrightspellcaster@gmail.. or call his mobile number +2348164737027.

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  26. My name is Angelia Johnson from United States, I want to quickly tell the world that there is a real on line spell caster that is powerful and genuine,I was the world’s biggest septic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like that, but I was told by a reliable source Dr. OFEMO a great spell caster helping me retrieving back my relationship with my ex boyfriend back when he ended and turned back to me for quite a long time now (3 months ago). He performed a spell for me and for 24 hours after the spell had been casted i receive a text from my ex boyfriend saying that he is sorry for the pains he put me true and the tears that he had caused me and that he will not do such thing to me again in his life again. i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before,and He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. I was surprised but later accepted him back again.got me to visit this website:http://drofemospelltemple2.webs.com/ or Anyone that is in the same line of problem or different one and want to contact him should happily contact him now on this email address. drofemospelltemple@gmail.com,am so happy very well Love and Many Blessings Back to me again!email address drofemospelltemple@gmail.com thank you so much dr Ofemo!!!!

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  28. i will love to share my testimony to you all the people in world i got married to my husband about last year we start having problems at home like we stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he always comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with other women out side i have never love any man in my life except him. he is the father of my child and i don't want to loose him because we have worked so hard together to become what we are and have today .few month ago he now decided to live me and the kid,being a single mother can be hard sometimes and so i have nobody to turn to and i was heart broken.i called my mom and explain every thing to her,my mother told me about DR.tatota how he helped her solve the problem between her and my dad i was surprise about it because they have been without each other for three and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each other. i was directed to DR. tatota on his email:tatotaspellcaster@gmail.com and explain everything to him,so he promise me not to worry that he will cast a spell and make things come back to how we where so much in love again and that it was another female spirit that was controlling my husband he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back asking me to forgive him i Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact Dr tatota the great spell caster on his email addresses tatotaspellcaster@gmail.com IF YOU ALSO NEED SOLUTION IN THE FOLLOWING PROBLEM,CONTACT HIM AS WELL.
    1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) You want to be rich.
    (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money.
    (10)if you want to stop your divorce.
    (11)if you want to divorce your husband.
    (12)if you want your wishes to be granted.
    (13) Pregnancy spell to conceive baby
    (14)Guarantee you win the troubling court cases & divorce no matter how what stage
    (15)Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart.
    once again the email address is tatotaspellcaster@gmail.com contact him immediately.

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  30. I live in Mexico and I'm happily married with a lovely wife and three children. I had a very big problem with my wife few months ago,to the extent that she even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning Golden Temple Of Wonders and i quote."There's someone who can handle your situation i never believed in such fetich life but after a while i had a second since getting back family was all i could think about so i gave olokun_james2012@yahoo.com a message about my situation and calmly he told me not to panic and he said very clearly over a phone conversation to make the world know about the Golden Temple of Wonders in appreciation once i get back my family so i made the deal with him and went on with the process surprisingly after three days of consultation my wife gave me a call , she said my son misses me i couldn't help the tear roll down my face and i don't know what make me ask her if she could please come home to me then she pause and yes i thought it was still a joke until she came back home last week with my kids I'm glad i have the privilege to come in contact with Golden Temple Of Wonders at this very crucial time .i got the help i wanted my family is back. if you can read this then you still have chance to make yourself happier because life alone can be difficult to live without our loved once . for consultation booking with Golden Temple of Wonders, Email olokun_james2012@yahoo.com or +2348071860896

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  31. I live in united state, Two years ago i married a lady called saline, we had two children together, we were very happy to be husband and wife, so when i travel on a business trip to Brazil, i spent a year in Brazil due to my kind of business, i and my wife talked on phone all the time, we chatted on the Internet, i never knew that my wife had started cheating on me by going out with her old school friend called Mark, i never knew something was going wrong till i came back from my trip, then i and My wife started having problems, she goes out and come back late at night, she changed in a strange way that i could not endure, i tried to do everything to please her but it got worst, so one day she left the house and never came back, i tried reaching her but no way i could reach her, i never knew she had travelled with her new lover which was Mark, i wanted her so much because of the children she left for me and because i loved her so much too, because of the heart break she has put me into, i went into search of a real magic spell caster though I was scammed twice by a spell caster, but I never relented in my search because I wanted a happy life with my wife, So one morning i saw a testimony about a spell caster Esango Priest, so i contacted him and to my greatest surprise this esangopriest@gmail.com made life manful for me again, my wife came back to me after 3 days of a love spell from this Esango Priest, i took her back and I am now settled with my wife by the magic power of Esango Priest .
    Malcolm franks'

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  32. Hello to you all here, i am Kirsten Wilson. and i here to share to you all my testimony about this man called Dr ABULU , last year i got married to my husband Wilson Jefferson and we both have a body so we were both living happily together ever since we got married until early this year when my husband traveled to Australia for business trip and he told me and kid that he will be coming in two months time and he left , it was just 2 weeks when my husband stopped calling me and the kid so i was surprise and i started to wonder what is wrong until i heard that he is with a lady there and he was even planing to marry her and push me and my child out so i reported to his family but they could not stop him this time he has send me message to live the house before he return so i was so confused and do not know what to do so a friend of my mummy directed me to this man DR ABULU of abuluspiritualtemple@gmail.com, for help and solution and i quickly rush to contact him through his mail and he told me what to do and i did it and after two days mu husband called me and started begging me to forgive and forget all that he must have done to be that he was not his self so that is how i manage to save my relationship so with this great work done for me by DR ABULU i promised to share this to the world in-case any one is there with similar problems should contact him as well for solution and i know you must be saved okay
    email;abuluspiritualtemple@gmail.com
    website;abuluspiritualtemple.webs.com
    KIRSTEN WILSON

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